Asmanur Husna: A Need For QualityTime

Usually, right after fetched my daughters from nursery everyday after came back from work, i quickly leave Dafiya in her playpen in front of TV while letting Delisya do her thing like ride her bike in the garage or something. Belum sempat duduk rehat lagi ni, I opened the fridge and took out anything to cook for dinner. My hubby is being concerned about his weight recently so he don't want to have dinner after 8pm. That's why I'm rushing to prepared the dinner on time so that he could take his shower, makan, solat and rehat. (Im a good wife,aren't i?)

Selalunya we do get tired after a long day at work and all we wanna do is just baring depan TV and get to bed at 10pm, right? But after having 2 kids, i realize as a parents, we do need to have a quality time with our kids not just on weekend but everyday,at any time. Kesian diorang since morning till evening kat nursery dengan pengasuh so malam jelah they can bermanja-manja with their parents kan? Plus waktu bersama ni lah we can see their development and what have they done everyday, what have they learn, what do they eat everything.

Honestly, i feel that i should thank their 'Mummy' and 'Cikgu' for teaching Delisya many2 songs, how to write and coloring, recites doa, pakai baju seluar sendiri, susun selipar, etc..All these tiny thing mungkin nampak simple for people tapi as a mom, kalau boleh kita nak pakaikan dia baju seluar everytime but how can she learn to do it on her own? That's when i realize i should learn on how to teach my daughters about independent bukan manjakan dia. Even my mom thought me to do house chores since Darjah 3,can u imagine? My mom and dad bekerja and balik petang or kadang-kadang malam. At that age, i can even wash all the clothes by myself (both machine and hand), kemas rumah,sidai kain di ampaian, lipat baju, sapu sampah,tukar langsir and sarung kusyen every 3-4 months, change diapers adik, put him to sleep,masak meggi or goreng telur sendiri,kemas stor just to name a few lah! Hell yes! Im not bluffing ok. Haaa compare pulak dgn generation sekarang, how many kids u find yang boleh buat semua tu seawal usia 9 tahun?? I guess i have already being a good daughter and kakak for my siblings coz of the sense of responsibility that i have in family. Hopefully my daughters dapat membesar dengan perkembangan yang baik and of course better than me.