Speak up or Silent?

If only la we knew kan for certain how people were going to react b4 we speak, our lives would b so mch less complicated isn’t? Well guys, I hve to admit a few days ago I got myself in trouble with someone on thoughts 4 speaking up when I should hve just left things alone, and 4 dat I apologize...=(

Sometimes its like we can't stop ourselves from speaking even when we know better. Don't get me wrong k, I mean there are many times when we need to speak up especially if someone’s life could be at risk or if we have important information that is needed to help someone for instance. (Mcm dlm YouTube,ppl assume MassComm students don’t know when to stop when they are talking,always talk,talk,talk,talk)But the majority of the time is those small nagging issues that get us in the most trouble. Believe it or not it's the small issues that break up most families and relationship.

All of us have the power to lift people up or destroy them with our words, so I learned that we need to be careful and choose wisely when to speak. Kdg2,nak ckp srba salah,tak ckp pun salah..Ppl say some thing are better left unsaid tp bile tak ckp, org takkan tau..Susahnye..God.. plz help me to speak with love and compassion , using the right words at the right time that will make a difference in someones life. Please help me and give me wisdom to know when to speak and when to be silent…Sigh..