Wednesday, September 4, 2013

Delisya's Progress in Taska Tahfiz - Week 2

Assalamualaikum.

It's been a while i didn't update my blog. Been busy with kids (as usual), work, house chores and whatnot. This month saya agak lembab sikit buat kerja sebab dah masuk bulan baru pun, belum siap kerja yg last month punya. Mana taknye, sambil kerja sambil bersosial...Haishh i really need some motivation right now.

Anyway i'm gonna touch a little bit about Delisya's progress in her new school (Taska Tahfiz Roudhotul Jannah). 2 minggu dah berlalu and i can see she's happy there. Alhamdullillah everything goes well and i got nothing to be worried except about hygiene matter. I feel bad for saying this but the Ustazah's daughter (2 yo) mcm a bit selekeh from head to toe. Mcm tak mandi all the time sebab rambut dia yg bad haircut (mybe ptg sendiri, tak g saloon) tu quite messy. Pakaian pulak mcm agak 80's sebab i didn't find any clothes mcm tu dah nowadays. Ok i know i am sooo bad!! But its not the issue here. Yang merisaukan saya adalah kalau anak dia sendiri mcm messy, mcmane dia urus anak kite??

I tried to think positive. Before this, Delisya tak pernah ada masalah kencing dalam seluar coz she will tell me all the time kalau nak kencing kat toilet. Since dia masuk situ, dalam 5 hari sekolah, 2 hari je pakai jubah. Lagi 3 hari pakai baju kurung biasa sebab jubah basuh. Why basuh? Kena air kencing-hancing!

When i asked her nicely why did that happened, dia cakap Ustazah tutup pintu blk air so dia tak biasa and pee on her pants. Its ok i understand usia mcm dia masih dalam proses utk memahami situasi. Mungkin mmg Ustazah tutup pintu toilet for security purpose. But i believe Delisya is not a girl yang afraid of asking something...so i told her what she should do and warned her next time i'll rotan her if she pee on her jubah again. I guess she can understand that sebab that thing no more happen. ^_^

I also think mungkin jugak Delisya terkencing masa tengah tidur tengahari since she didn't use any diapers anymore. If that happened, they will still using the same toto for the kids to sleep! Yes isnya najis ringan tapi i believe diorang cuma renjis air and jemur but it wont go away! Omg my girl is sleeping on that toto.......i really need to get a special toto just for her this weekend. I hope Ustazah tak kecil hati..

Enough with that. Bab makan pulak, as far as i can see, bila ditanya Delisya cakap dia makan nasi, sup ayam, ikan masin, telur and kadang2 lain menu. Its ok coz that is mucchhhhh better dari Taska sebelum ni yang hari2 jamu nasi putih dengan kicap. I dont know if it's true or not but seriously i dont want to think about it too much coz it'll drive me insane. That's why lepas je balik kerja 1st thing i know is to fed them with anything janji kenyang. Even morning before to work pun i'll make sure they eat something before send them to nursery.

Delisya also dah pandai disiplin. Contoh paling mudah bab bangun pagi. Sebelum ni masa hantar ke Taska pun mata masih pejam. Since kena mandi pagi dan masuk sekolah pukul 8 ni i tried to trained her well and Alhamdulillah, belum ada problem lagi pagi2 except soal berus gigi. Datang mood dia taknak gosok gigi, memang menguji kesabaran sketlah. Cuma tricknya disini is we have to be patient and treat her like a queen....hmm baru takkan ada masalah. U knw what i mean - gelak2 dgn dia, buat lawak bodoh, lemah lembut, puji memuji and all that..confirm dia will be in a good mood and ceria masuk sekolah. Thats the parenting tidbits that i've learned thru reading also. You dont need to marah2, rotan or ugut, heret dia kasar2 and all sebab it worsen the situation later and the kid will not be happy with the surrounding.

Apart from that i think everything is well. Dia pun boleh pick up apa yang diajar sebab Ustazah tu cakap suara dia paling kuat dan petah. Im so proud of her, Alhamdulillah. We'll see how it goes another months from now..=)

2 comments:

  1. "Taska sebelum ni yang hari2 jamu nasi putih dengan kicap"...taska yg awak maksudkan ni taska yg fia duduk skang atau taska nur rayqal tu?..

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    1. Taska yang Dafiya duduk skrg..im not sure what is their new name. Yg pastinya bukan Rayqal. But i dont know..org cakap kids dont lie tapi taktaulah if its true or not. Wallahualam..=)

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